We are currently living in unprecedented times that can cause us to feel heightened distress and anxiety. Sometimes we are aware of the stress we may be feeling; however, there are times when our conscious mind is not aware of our own emotions and the bodily sensations that accompany them. When this occurs, the body speaks in ways that we may not be aware of, such as a shaking leg or other unconscious movements. When our body is speaking, we frequently dismiss the messages being transmitted because we don’t know how to interpret these signs. As a result, we let emotions go unresolved and remain unchecked, which allows energy to stay trapped in the body.

You can pay attention to what your body is saying by consciously checking in with your body. When was the last time you checked in with your physical self? It’s probably been a while! Checking in with our bodily sensations is a great way to discover purposive messages that we may otherwise miss.

Here are four ways to check in with your physical self:

Check In With Your Body Through Mindfulness
Mindfulness meditation allows us to be in tune and connected with our bodies and the signs our bodies are sending us. To check in with our bodies using mindfulness, follow these steps:
It’s important to note that when we engage in this action, known as the body scan meditation, it’s natural for our minds to wander and drift. What’s important is that we are bringing out attention back to the present moment as we are checking in with our body.

Posture
We seldom pay attention to our posture when we are standing or sitting, but our posture can tell us quite a bit about how we are feeling. What is your posture at this moment? Some clinicians pose that our posture can actually display our unconscious beliefs about ourselves, those around us, and our attitudes towards the event we are experiencing in that moment.

Standing straight can represent a neutral stance in our present moment, whereas being in a slouched position often reflects feeling bored, anxious, and other negative emotions. Interestingly, having our arms crossed when we are standing often represents a defensive and closed off stance.

In checking in with our posture, it’s important to try to understand what the posture we are presenting might be reflecting for us internally. What is the message our body is trying to tell us at that moment?

Tension
We hold tension and emotions throughout our body. As you are reading this, take a moment to check in on the places that you typically hold tension. Drop your shoulders, unclench your jaw, and stretch each area while taking your eyes away from any screens for a few moments. Check in on these areas periodically, as tension does build up overtime!

Approach Feelings Non-judgmentally
Have you felt something in your body as you were experiencing something? A pit in your stomach? A tingling on the back of your neck? Arguably the most important time to check in with the body is in the moment when you are moving through an event and/or experiencing a feeling. For example, if we are speaking to someone and our chest feels heavy, it is important to take note of that feeling in the moment and explore it in a non-judgmental way. Without being too hard on yourself for experiencing the feeling, ask yourself what this feeling may be trying to tell you.

In looking at these different ways of checking in with our body, it is important to always look at the purpose of the body’s messages. If you are feeling something with the body, a shift in posture, a build-up of tension, or a feeling after an event, ask yourself what your body is trying to communicate. It can be a challenge to notice and attend to all our bodily messages in the moment in which we experience them but through practice and integration this process of aligning ourselves with our body can become second nature.
Written by: Natalie DeRose, M. Psy. Candidate, B.A. (Hons)
Edited/Reviewed by: Dr. Stacy Lekkos, C.Psych and Chantal Legere, M.Psy. Candidate, B.A. (Hons)

References

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