Ever get the feeling that you're not good enough at what you are doing? Or that other people are going to think that you're a phoney? If you have experienced these thoughts or anything along the lines of doubting your abilities and qualifications, you may be experiencing imposter syndrome.
What is imposter syndrome?
Coined by the psychologists Suzanne Imes and Pauline Rose Clance, imposter syndrome is "a psychological pattern in which an individual doubts their accomplishments, and has a persistent internalized fear of being exposed as a fraud." (Dalla-Camina, 2018). Although it is not formally listed in the DSM-5 as a clinical disorder, imposter syndrome (also known as imposter phenomenon) is regularly accompanied by feelings of debilitating
anxiety and has even been linked to
depression. It has been said to be experienced primarily by students or individuals starting new careers or engaging in new/unfamiliar activities. In addition to
anxiety and
depression, these negative feelings inhibit people from starting new life tasks, improving life tasks, and leads them to doubt their abilities.
Even Maya Angelou claimed to experience these feelings of imposter syndrome regardless of her 50 years of writing experience saying,
"I've run a game on everyone and they are going to find me out" (Richards, 2015). Even Albert Einstein was known for believing that his work should not have received as much attention as it did. Imposter syndrome builds its strength when the individual experiencing it believes their feelings are unique to them. The more practical question to ask oneself is,
"Is it even possible to be entirely prepared for any given moment or challenge?"
The cause of imposter syndrome remains unknown, although there are hypotheses that consider parenting style to influence its onset. Children raised in households where success and results were not valued, as well as children who received mixed messages of affirmations from their parents, have been positively correlated to experiencing imposter syndrome. Understanding these feelings becomes more complicated when trying to determine the underlying cause or meaning. Does it stem from feelings of inadequacy, fear of failure,
perfectionism, excessive worry or intolerance of uncertainty? The one thing that we do know for sure, is that these feelings are common. In light of this, our primary concern should be how to combat it.
So how can we combat imposter syndrome?
Next time you catch yourself thinking that you're a fraud or that you're not qualified to be a good parent, a reliable friend, a qualified nurse, a talented artist, or a knowledgeable chef, apply the cognitive technique of reframing. Instead of thinking of yourself as unqualified, reframe your thoughts and recognize how much you care. Take ownership of your feelings and acknowledge how empowering it feels to have a passion for something. Believe in yourself and trust your abilities. In a world full of people striving for short-cuts and living through life on "autopilot", you are one step ahead of the curve by reflecting inward and caring about your actions.
Written By: Erik Michalik, M. Psy Candidate, BASc,
Edited/Reviewed by: Chantal Legere, M. Psy.
References
Dalla-Camina, M. (2018, September 03). The Reality of Imposter Syndrome. Retrieved from https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/real-women/201809/the-reality-imposter-syndrome
Richards, C. (2015, October 26). Learning to Deal With the Impostor Syndrome. Retrieved from
https://www.nytimes.com/2015/10/26/your-money/learning-to-deal-with-the-impostor-syndrome.html
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